Update on Baby

Well, I had my latest check up at the doctor's yesterday. I technically have 9 days to go until my due date and I am 90-100% effaced and the baby's head is at a zero station. However, I am only dilated to 1 & 1/2 centimeters. Apparently, that is the only thing keeping me from labor right now.

Dr. Parker really freaked me out last Tuesday (Dec. 23rd) when he told me I was 90% effaced and that the baby had dropped. He told me I should go right to the hospital and get pre-registered and that the baby could come any day. I told him, "Doctor, I can't have this baby early!" He simply said "Well, I suggest you adjust your expectations." (I was really freaked out because I had progressed so quickly from being a zero with 0% effaced on Friday, 12/12 to 90% and 1 & 1/2 centimeters on Tues, 12/23).

(The reason I can't go early is because I am waiting on two sales to close at work before I go out on leave, and if I don't get the POs before the baby comes, I will lose my sales commission. :-) The minute the baby is born, maternity leave starts).

So, thanks to Doctor Parker (bless his heart) I have spent the past week panicking and waking up in cold sweats in the middle of the night and fearing I was going into labor at the slightest sign of any pain. Monday night I had nightmares that I missed the birth of my own baby (apparently, I was in the other room..?) and hoards of people I barely knew were lining up to be in the delivery room to watch the blessed event. Eeeeekkkkkk!!!!!!

But yesterday, Doctor Allen told me just what I wanted to hear: there has been no progress in the last week. Ah..... now I can go to my cousin's baptism on Saturday (hopefully). :-)

Comments

Kerri said…
Melissa, Stay tense until you're ready. That can actaully keep him from coming so soon! I learned that in hypnobirthing. Maybe not exactly like that, but when you are relaxed, your body tends to progress a little faster. So how long do you have to wait?
Kerri, thanks for the great advice! That's probably why I didn't progress at all this week. I have been soooo stressed. I should probably be ready to go by my due date: Thursday, Jan. 8th. I need about a week more, anyway, to get the house ready! :-)
I am so excited. Just for you I'm going to quit hoping for the baby to come today. Good luck! We love you.
Hopefully you can get those last few sales done as well as your final "nesting" before the blessed event. We are so excited! Keep us updated!
Adrienne said…
Yeah! You're going to have a baby! I'm excited to see you as a mom :)
Stella said…
Melissa, talk to your baby and ask him to stay in until you are ready to receive him. He'll understand what you mean by "ready" Also remind him how much you love him and how excited you are to be his mom. He's already tuned in so he will understand.
All my best,
Stella
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